Friday, March 20, 2009

Adoption Announcements

Here are our Adoption Announcements.
I am so excited about them. They are exactly what I wanted. Originally I thought I would make them myself on Shutterfly, but I am SO glad that I did not. These are awesome and it was wonderful working with Amber at inababycarriage.com . She was so helpful in customizing one of her regular birth announcements for all my text in the adoption announcement.







Monday, March 16, 2009

So much to write...so little time

We got home from Russia on Thursday Night, March 12,2009 at 7:20 pm. The girls Officially became American Citizens at that moment. From that moment on life has been very different for us, as a family of FOUR. I will try to get my journals from our last few days in Russia up on to the blog within the next few days. PROMISE! I finished downloading all the photos, over 2000 taken during the 36 days I spent in Russia. Don't worry, I will not post all of them. But, it will take some time to sort and organize them all.

For now though...sleep!
Love you all.
Melissa

Tuesday, March 10, 2009

Exit Interview at US Embassy Moscow

I wasn't allowed to take any photos at the US Embassy but we are SO happy that is over.

Our coordinator picked us up at 1 pm for our appointment. Our appointment was not until 2 pm but we were told (and saw first hand a few days ago on our journey here from Tver) that the traffic is horrible here in downtown Moscow and even though the embassy is only a couple of miles away it could take a long time to get there. Of course today we were able to zip right through the streets of Moscow and were in front of the embassy within 15 minutes. The girls were NOT happy campers in the car and cried and complained. We had to sit in a parked car for 20-30 minutes because we were not allowed to go in to the embassy too early. We were also not allowed to bring a stroller so we had to carry them the entire time. With one kid we could have switched on and off but we both had our hands full and had to juggle kids, diaper bag, coats, paperwork etc.

So, we had our Exit Interview at 2 pm. We had to go through lots of airport-like security taking off coats and bags and going through metal detectors (not east with our hands full). Also,you have to understand that the girls usually nap from 1-3. So, they were exhausted, over stimulated and hungry! They were none too happy to be at the embassy when they should be asleep. We kept them calm with lots of cheerios and frequent walks to play with the water fountain. Once our names were called we went up to a window for our interview. We made sure all the spelling and information was correct and then received all the official documents; birth and adoption certificates, official medical records and vaccination reports, their Russian Passports and American Visas. We were also given a sealed manila envelope for each girl that were are not to open and bring with us to immigration when we get to JFK. The girls officially become American Citizens at JFK. SO, as soon as we left the Embassy we had to hand over all the official documents we were just given to the lady from the Russian consulate who will register the girls with the Russian Authorities. We get everything back at 6 pm on Wednesday and fly out on Thursday!!! Yay.

Enjoy todays few pictures.
First one is of Meredith. She is obsessed with hard rolls. She is teething on them and sucking on them all day long. This morning Meredith she had one in each hand and saw a third on the table and this is what happened.


We put the Russian hat on both girls to get photos today. Danielle thought it was a blast, she played pick-a-boo with it. Meredith did not like it at all as you can see from her expression.

Monday, March 9, 2009

Lazy Monday in the Hotel

Today was a LAZY DAY in the Hotel. It is International Women's Day observed (as the holiday was really yesterday-Sunday) so nothing is open today.

Meredith was up at 6, Mike let me sleep in with Danielle and she got up at 6:45.
We tried to get them to nap this afternoon but they had already slept about 45 minutes in the stroller during our morning walk.

For the rest of the day we played with them all over the hotel. We walked them in the lobby during lunch, walked around our floor tons and played on the sofas on our floor as well. Mike played the piano for them. We then moved to the executive lounge for a change of scenery. It was cold and snowing today. When we went out this morning we bundled the girls up and put on the visor and plastic rain covering on the stroller. We did not want to take them outside again today because we do not want them to get a cold or get sick before we fly home. We are so cooped up in this hotel. We had a nice relaxing bedtime routine this evening. Bath time, massage, and quiet time. The girls were in the cribs by 6:45 and asleep within 15 minutes. Mike and I had a quiet dinner of room service in our sitting room and his parents left us tonight. We plan on getting into be early. Last night we didn’t go to sleep until after 11 pm. Of course, Mike seems to get a nice nap in each afternoon but for some reason I do not! Actually, I am not a huge napper anyway and would rather play on the computer during down time. So, It is my own fault. Tomorrow is our exit interview at the American Embassy. Almost home…

Sunday, March 8, 2009

Sunday in Moscow



Here are some photos from our lazy Sunday in Moscow. Today is International Women's Day. There was a fancy Sunday Champagne Brunch going on in the hotel this afternoon. They had violinists playing up on our floor on the balcony that overlooks the restaurant. We spent some time this afternoon out on the floor listening to the music and playing around. Meredith was the first to wake up from her nap so she got more time listening to the music. Both girls loved it. I took a good video of them watching the violinists.




Saturday, March 7, 2009

Weekend in Moscow

This morning we were up with the girls at 6:30 and played until we fed them breakfast at 7:30. Neil and Lulu came by the room at around 8:30 and by 9:30 we were downstairs at the breakfast buffet. The girls ate a small snack while we ate breakfast. We played in the room some more and bundled up to walk over the ZUM mall where there is a gourmet market on the lower level. We bought some more baby food and items needed for the girls. We bought diapers in a smaller size for Meredith as the size 3’s are too big. The girls fell asleep in the stroller again and we walked around the department store so they could enjoy their nap. There is a kids/baby section that we went through. Boy is Moscow expensive!! Of course we were looking at Burberry, Ralph Lauren, Baby Dior etc. We didn’t buy anything but it was fun to look.

Back at the hotel the girls DID NOT want to nap after lunch. They cried and cried and I could not stand to leave them in the cribs for too long. They were sobbing. I know they are exhausted but this whole week has been so stressful for them that I think it is all catching up to them. They would not nap so we played and Mike put them in the stroller and rolled them around the hotel for about 45 minutes trying to get them to go down to no avail. We finally fed them dinner and they took their second baths. Still pretty traumatic but they survived. Neil and Lulu helped to dry them off and get them ready for bed. They salined their noses and we had some nice quiet time. They were asleep within 12 minutes of going in their cribs at 7:15. I still hate to hear them cry and rock but hopefully with time the rocking will stop. I cannot wait until we get home and start on a real routine. Our rocking chair is being delivered the day after we get home.

Room service for dinner and bed soon after.

Friday, March 6, 2009

Friday in Moscow- Doctors Visit



So, the girls slept from 8:15 last night to 6:30 am with about 12 minutes of crying and rocking before passing out last night. We got them up at 6:30 as the Doctor was supposed to be here at 7:15 but he was running late because of crazy Moscow traffic. So we gave them breakfast first. He showed up at 7:45 ish.

Doctor Boris was a very nice Russian pediatrician. He was so good with them. He checked them both out and the physical took all of 5 minutes per girl. He has to be sure they have no communicable diseases before entering the US. He checked them out, listened to their hearts, looked in ears and mouth and measured head and chest circumference. He pronounced them both healthy. Though, they do both show some signs of rickets which is due to the Vitamin D dificency as they received no vitamins in the orphanage and had never been outside before we took them to get their photos taken. Also, Danielle has an umbilical hernia which should go away by itself with the growth of her and the strengthening of her abdominal muscles. Doctor Boris was so sweet with them both, speaking quietly to them both in Russian. They cried and were not too happy to have been poked and proded. He said they were both Drama queens and that they already knew how to manipulate mom and dad, which is totally true on both accounts. He told us to use saline every night for their little noses because they are stuffy mostly because of the teething. Using saline will also be helpful to them before we get on the plane. It is so dry here, the Russians keep all indoor spaces sooooooo hot. He also said not to over feed them and to give them a few smaller meals throughout the day instead of only 3 bigger ones. We have already been doing this because I was told be so many other adoptive parents that the newly adopted kids will gorge on all of the food you put in front of them until they get sick.

So Before Dr. Boris got here were were able to feed them a small breakfast and skype my parents. It was so great to see my parents and have them say hi to the girls. We put the computer on the floor so they could see them playing.It was adorable. Some how Danielle was able to press some sort of buttons on the computer and the entire screen turned upside down. I had to shut down the computer to fix it. Here is a photo of my mom on skype upsdie down:

A little later that morning we had breakfast down stairs in the hotel restaurant and entertained the girls with bread and cheerios while we ate. Mike actually got Meredith to hold a piece of hard bread and suck on it. She was mostly teething on it and not actually eating it but it was great to see her holding it herself and not depending on Mike to feed her every piece.

We spent the rest of the morning and early afternoon playing with them and then we changed them and bundled up and headed outside for our first walk with them in the stroller. Doc Boris said that they would benefit from the sunlight so out we went. Lulu had to head to the Aeroflot office to pay for our ticket change and the addition of the twins. The Aeroflot office is not even a block away from the hotel so it was nice and convenient. We walked around the neighborhood for about 25 minutes. We are in a very ritzy part of Moscow close to Red Square. All of the fancy stores are here, it kinda felt like walking on Madison or Fifth Avenue. Not that I would buy anything here. We did a few laps around the hotel and inside the hotel lobby . Danielle fell asleep in the stroller in all her layers of clothing and snowsuit. We did not want to wake her. So we sat in the lobby area on our floor on the sofa’s and let her sleep while Mike walked around the halls with Meredith. Of course it is nap time and our room was in the process of being cleaned so we had to hang out elsewhere. It is nice to lounge for a while though.

We spent the afternoon walking around Red Square. The hotel is so close, only 3 blocks away but you have to go through an underground passage way to get to red square. Mike and Neil had to carry the double stroller with both girls in it down and up the stairs. We looked at all of the vendors and Louise bought Mike a Russian hat for all of ten dollars. It even has the naval medallion on it. We walked all the way through Red Square and got our pre-requisite photos in front of St. basil’s Cathedral. Louise wanted a picture in front of GUM (the very fancy department store in red square.) We would have gone in but Lulu’s knee was hurting and she did not want to walk too much and we did not want to keep the girls out for too long because it was cold and windy. Both girls fell asleep in the stroller, even though Meredith was crying for the first ½ of the ride.

Once back at the hotel we played and played and fed the girls dinner in the executive lounge on the 5th floor. We put them down for the night by 8:00 and they only cried and whined for about 10 minutes. I bet they were tierd as neither of them really napped much.

Neil and Mike enjoyed dinner at the Polo Club tonight and Louise and I just ordered room service in our room while the girls slept. I got to bed around 9:30 and Mike came in around 11 after a nightcap wit his parents.

Here are some photos from the day:

Thursday, March 5, 2009

Our First Day as Parents

Mike and I feel like we did not sleep a single wink. I am sure that is how you feel the first night you have your new baby home from the hospital. We would check to see if they were breathing, if they were okay, if they were really still there. It was crazy.

But, they woke up at 7 am – 2 happy little girls. We are over the moon!

We changed some stinky and wet diapers and clothing and off to breakfast we went. Up and down all those stairs with 2 little girls. No easy task. They enjoyed breakfast and eat very well. We spent the rest of the morning hours taking turns watching the girls and packing up our stuff. We seem to have accumulated a TON of stuff. Food, pampers etc for the girls are everywhere and in every bag!

At 11 Mike had to go with our interpreter to the Police Station to sign some documents and pick up the girls passports. We feed the girls lunch at 11:30 in anticipation of the 3 hour ride to Moscow. They ate well again and we changed and dressed them. Since Danielle pooped this morning I did not think she would go again. Of course while holding Meredith on my lap just before we were leaving she pooped so Mike had to run down all the flights of steps to get the diaper bag back up to me to change her.

So many bags...they all went into the yellow Van. We said our goodbyes to the coordinator who has been the most wonderful person to us. She is an amazing women and we are so thankful for her knowledge and pull in our region. So, we loaded up for the drive. Oh my God!!! What a trip. Picture this little yellow van; really uncomfortable seats, no seat belts or car seats and 2 squirmy toddlers. We are so grateful that they both fell asleep in our arms for about 1 and 1/2 hours of the drive. But Danielle was having a tummy ache (I think it was all the milk- NO more milk for her for a while!) so about 2 hours in I had to ask to pull over to the side of the road so I could change her. She made a messy stinky mess! No one in the van was too pleased with that! They driver and interpreter even got out of the van. Once we got into the Moscow area the traffic started to slow and both girls were woken up by all the stop/starting of the car. Danielle once again made a stinky mess and this time there was no where to stop, so in a moving van in downtown Moscow traffic I changed her again. Just disgusting! I am not surprised I am experiencing all this crazy mommy stuff already! and it is really only day 1!

Finally we made it to our hotel, Marriott Aurora. It is a gorgeous hotel. Of course, of all the Marriott's, this is the one right in the center of the city and traffic is NUTS. It took over 4 hours to get here from Tver. But we plan on staying in the hotel a lot and it is a great hotel and supposedly near good places to go. We will see.

Once we got in we immediately dropped all our stuff in the room and ran down to the restaurant for dinner because we were all starving. All the adults had eaten breakfast at 8 am and nothing else since. The girls had a snack at 11:30 is but were definitely hungry. We were all happy to sit and relax. Mike and I are exhausted and I know Neil and Lulu are also, they have been a godsend during this trip!

Danielle did not want to eat anything tonight but cheerios. Turns out her stomach was still upset and I cleaned up mess number 4 of the day. It got all down her pant leg so she came back to the table pant-less (in only a diaper) to finish the meal. She did chew on a few pieces of a roll and drank the baby tea but wanted none of the other stuff. I hope her tummy feels better soon. No more milk for her for a while.

I gave the girls their first bath tonight. It was a bit traumatizing for both of them but at least I got it done and they dont smell like poop any more. While I did that with the aid of the in-laws Michael met downstairs with the adoption agency coordinator in Moscow to go over our final schedule and sign all of the papers for the US embassy. We have an appointment with the doctor at 7:15 tomorrow morning. Thankfully the doc will come to the hotel and meet with us in the room so we are happy to be able to sleep in a bit.

Wednesday, March 4, 2009

"GOTCHA DAY"

Today is THE DAY! GOTCHA DAY is the day we have been waiting for.

First thing this morning we headed to a big supermarket to buy our supplies for the girls and a donation to the orphanage. The director had asked for juice so Mike and Neil filled a huge shopping cart completely with apple juice. The total bill came to less than $100 but I couldn’t believe how many containers we got. (about 30 huge containers) The orphanage was very happy with the donation so we were thrilled to do it. We also bought pampers and a ton of food, juice and milk for the girls. We also got this baby tea that they drink.

Heading to the orphanage we brought all of our gifts to give to the workers, doctors, director etc and the clothing and snowsuits for the girls to leave in. As soon as we got in the group workers took the clothing to dress the girls, I think they wanted to say their good byes privately to them. Once they brought the girls down they looked adorable in the Janie and Jack outfits Lulu got for them and I was thrilled that they fit both of them. We were able to say our goodbyes to the caregivers and even got a picture taken with them. We had a really nice good bye visit with the doctor who spoke on our behalf at our trial. We also gave our gifts and got may wonderful hugs and well wishes from the rest of the staff. It was almost about 12:30 when we were finally able to get them into their new snowsuits and take them away. Neil took a picture of us in front of the orphanage for the last time!


Here are photos of us taking them to the hotel with us. Bye Bye Teremok!!!!!!! Paka...

We got them back to the hotel right around when they would normally be napping. We really tried hard to get them to nap but they were definitely over stimulated from the entire event. I am sure it is completely traumatizing for them to be taken away from everything they have known their whole life. Even though we have been visiting them for a number of weeks in a row, we were only able to play with them twice a day and did not have to feed, bathe or get them to nap. So, once they got to the hotel with us and realize we were not giving them back to their caregivers it must have been a shock.

We were finally able to get Danielle to nap for about an hour. Meredith would have no part of it. She was completely awake. Neil and Lulu were gems. They ran to the resturarant and got us lunch while we tried to calm the girls. By about 4 pm we fed them lunch/snack of cheerios, jarred applesauce. Danielle even took some milk in a sippy cup. We played with them and tried to relax in the room until dinner. We didn’t get down to the restaurant until 6:30 ish. The girls were excellent and behaved so well. They both ate great. We ordered semolina and Meredith loved it and ate it up. It is amazing how much that little girl eats. I do not know where it goes right now but I am thrilled to see her eat and hope they she starts putting on weight ASAP, she is all skin and bones right now. Danielle drank some of the tea out of a cup and we all around had a good time with them. The staff loved them too, and it was fun showing them off.

We got back up to the room and though their normal bed time is around 7 pm we did not get them to go down until 9:15. They both cried and cried and fought it so much. It is completely heartbreaking to not know what to do to sooth them. They would be soothed when we picked them up but they would then not go to sleep and want to play. So we had to try to sooth them while they were in the cribs (pack and plays). Not an easy task to sooth an institutionalized child on the first night away from the institution. We had to let them cry a little bit and they did do some rocking/self soothing. But finally they both got down. A couple times throughout the early night I heard and saw Meredith rocking a lot for about 15 seconds and then collapse right back down to sleep. Danielle pooped around 5 am and It stunk but I was afraid to wake her to change her for fear of her not going back to sleep. So, not sure if it was a horrible decision or not but I left her stinky for anther 2 hours. She was sound asleep.